Resources for Feeling Better in Any Given Moment and Riding Out Heavy Emotions
Feelings are associated with many factors influenced by the state that the body is, the circumstances triggering an emotional response, the nature of our relationships, the expectations that the mind pre-sets, the forecasting of what could happen, etc. These are just a few examples that would help us identify the source of our feelings.
In an interview for Scientific American, neurologist Antonio Damasio explains the difference between emotions and feelings. Although they’re used interchangeably, it’s important to realize their differences when we’re on a pursuit of self-mastery. He mentions:
“Emotions are more or less the complex reactions the body has to certain stimuli. When we are afraid of something, our hearts begin to race, our mouths become dry, our skin turns pale and our muscles contract. This emotional reaction occurs automatically and unconsciously. Feelings occur after we become aware in our brain of such physical changes; only then do we experience the feeling of fear.”
When it comes to decision-making and how we view ourselves, it’s important to be aware of the feelings we’re processing at the time. The good news is that you can alter your feelings and reach for the ones that are more constructive, stabilizing, and empowering.
Here are some recommendations for feeling better and moving out of a funk:
- Take Action: Is there anything you can do that will be the antidote to your current feeling? For example, if you’re feeling low because of something or someone, can you change your focus of attention and call a friend who makes you laugh? Can you get up and rearrange your room/living space? Can you exercise at least 30-minutes daily? Keep asking yourself “What can I do that I know would make me feel better?”
- Remind yourself of how many times in the past your feelings suddenly changed when something positive or exciting occurred. Feelings are like the weather. They change and have a purpose. The clouds move away, the sun shines again, the rain nourishes the ground.
- Positive Affirmations: Reading and repeating statements out loud that are grounding will shift your body’s response to any triggering stimuli and help you feel safe and calm. Statements such as: I invite harmony and balance to my being. Life has a way of working out for me. I trust the timing of my life, will help you become more present in the moment.
- Assess your physical body. Make sure you’re not deficient in nutrients, hydration, and overall well-being. Often, emotions are tied to the body asking for help. So instead of focusing on the symptom, address the root. Sometimes, eating a well-balanced meal, hydrating your body and getting some rest can take care of everything.
- Feelings are also contagious. The company you keep and the energy you’re around directly impact how you view life and respond to stimuli. It’s important to be conscious of your exposures. Are you around people and environments that are inspiring, forward-thinking or positive in nature? Or Are you being dragged down by the nay-sayers, and fixed mindsets? To feel better, you must be around people that are feeling better than you.
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